Sometimes society automatically assume that being diagnosed with a mental health issue and being resilient automatically, go hand in hand. The truth is depending on how that individual copes with something, dictates whether or not that individual is resilient or not. Let's take a look at a few qualities and behaviors that should not be considered resilient. * Refusing to accept any type of treatment that does not coincide with their own opinions or beliefs. * Blaming others for their lack of progress. * Not taking into account the things they do to sabotage their treatment. * Using unhealthy coping strategies, such as self destructive or self sabotaging behaviors. * Essentially, it’s doing anything that would be considered counterproductive, or sabotaging your treatment. * Not having a full sense of self awareness * Using avoidance as a coping strategy, instead of using healthy coping strategies * Lashing out That’s not to say that going through something can't give you an ...